Offending People Is Part Of A Shameless Life Style Or Choice.?

Offending others is it Pleasurable?
Do humans have the right to Offend?

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Miserable People and Their Deadly Habits

We people from North East look alike but  follow our own culture and traditions and also our  language which  is different from each other and whenever we all are together either we all speak in English or in Hindi but the moment they find us in groups don't know why what really  makes them so annoyed either they ll stop us and tell us ,don't speak in ching fong language without even listening what language we really are speaking in ????and God knows what exactly CHING FONG means?If they won't say anything to us the moment  they see us together ,starts using fowl language,cant find any explanation to it why???????....perhaps GENETICALLY WIRED.
Their Deadly Habits:

Unfortunately,I have always found them  Complaining, Blaming, Threatening, Nagging,and  Criticizing.

What actually made me write about Racism

Even though people teased us ,in the  past, we never bothered thinking the best way is to ignore them as it was ignorable. But now I have  been this  has become intolarable  as it started in my office  as well, a person sitting very close to my work station is a die hard racist. I had to face  racial comments from Sunnie (name changed) almost on a daily basis. When  ever  I used to speak to my collegues, he  would  make it a point to come  and whisper something in their ears disturbing the entire conversation. One fine day to my, utmost surprise and  this extreme frustration he wrote  that he hate all the chingkis of the floor. It was a liesure hour  when  our Team Leader asked us  to write few lines about our college as a part of a game. He does'nt bother to even pass on slangs on us. It doesn't surprise me  any more   the reason because, 'charity begins at home" he is showen his own background, the kind of culture he belongs  to and ,,,, perhaps I might be  wrong , but an extent his family background as well and  the  kind of educational background he  might have  had. I'm not talking out my frustration on him  by saying this, I JUST PITTY HIM. He cannot be  a true Indian, the reason because India is a country of "UNITY IN DIREVSITY", which is inculcated in every Indian right in the school and this poor fellow perphas has never been  to a school of that standard hence  he is not aware of.

At times I even thought of leaving the job and  go back to my native  place and but my other collogues, friends and  well wishers comforted me  and  hence  I'm still here.

Racism is more individual thing than a group
what I feel is every person is a result of his or her Environment,
the way they are raised and the relationship they have with themselves and
they carry on with others.

Racism Comes In All Ways

One fine day  I requested my  Colleague to speak softly when
I was with the customer
and was not able to concerntrate on calls ,the Answer I got from him
was ... I just cant tolerate you PEOPLE,My fingers felt swollen and awkward.
 I think everyone experiences something like this no matter what
race they are. A lot of people judge the entire race based on few experiences.

Racial superiority is a mere pigment of the imagination.

No wonder we can’t stand racism. It reminds us disquietingly of the face we see in our own mirror.

My View

The politicians and  the citizens of India  has  deeply  criticized the  Australian community   for beating and dragging  the Indians and  the Indian students living and  studying    there in Australia, and termed them as RACIST. That, to an extent understandable and  debatable  as its between two countries, east  and  west. But how  does it feels  when one  Indian passes racial comments on another Indian as  they (me) look similar  to a community or tribe  that exists in other part of a globe with a different country  and  culture. I'm talking about Mongolian features. We people   from North-Eastern  part of  the country is considered  foreigners'  and  are  called and  abused  with extreme sarcasm and  at  times profanity follows as well. We are  called CHINKIS, CHINKS, CHINKI-MINKI, CHOWMEIN and   to our utmost surprise we are  also  called  Chinese and  are taken  for granted as  well.  I'm a commoner, people  like  the Chief Minister of Mizoram, Mr. Pu Lalthanhawla, has very rightly said that he too is a victim of racism  and  that he  is asked if he is Indian in his own country.

Prime Minister, Dr. Mr. Manmohan Singh had called the attacks on Indian students “appalling”, but what he has to say  to  the  Indian who discriminates  North-Eastern racially.... "unfortunate"?. No, this  will not work any more, we are Indians as  well,  we pay Tax out of our income  to the Government Of India  as any other citizens' of  India does & and cast our vote as well,  as any other citizens' of  India does.......than  why not......... we want  the same respect  that any other citizens of India gets, who doesn't look like Mongolian...............

I will  keep on writing my experiences  from time  to  time as   the  incidents  endless and  I have  been residing in Northern part  of   the country  for  the  last six years.....  you can imagine in  the past six years, how much racial remarks I have  faced..... right  from road  to office, hawkers to colleagues.